

A peek inside Merja Sumiloff's mind, Part 2.
This is an except from the Youtube video series "Real Conversations with INFJs and INFPs" Season 1, Episode 5. Merja Sumiloff is...


How can I avoid prejudice when knowing a potential partners type?
Today's question is from Eirini, thank you for your amazing question. I'm looking forward to sharing it with you. The question is: “How...


Why do other people look at INFPs so negatively?
Today's question is from Colleen, thank you for your amazing question. When you asked this question I felt privileged because this is a...


Muse or Addict? Our attraction to our Inferior Function.
Today's question is from Oli. Thank you so much for posting this question. "Is our attraction to inferior function, caused by immaturity...


How to serve others in a healthy way?
The problem for me is that I recognize that I always prioritize others' needs over my own, especially when it comes to my children, ages


What does it look like for an INF type to be in an introverted loop?
Beth is asking about what it looks like to be stuck in an introverted loop for an INFJ. So I'll do both of the types, INFJ and INFP.


What is integration work and why is it important?
“Integration equals maturity. Maturity equals good decisions.”-Merja Sumiloff


Introverts: how to express your personal genius in the workplace and relationships
By now you have probably realized that no-one has your perspective. At first, it may have come to you as a surprise that others don’t...


Who are the 4 People Within®? Part 2
You have 4 different parts within you. You have a feeling part, a thinking part, a sensing part and an intuitive part. Each of these parts h


Quick tips #32: How do I know if I'm selfish or self-caring?
Have you been called selfish or are you afraid of being deemed selfish? Even in these times of empowerment, there are still many of us...