

What does it look like for an INF type to be in an introverted loop?
Beth is asking about what it looks like to be stuck in an introverted loop for an INFJ. So I'll do both of the types, INFJ and INFP.


Introverts: how to express your personal genius in the workplace and relationships
By now you have probably realized that no-one has your perspective. At first, it may have come to you as a surprise that others don’t...


Good decisions, bad decisions
Have you ever made a bad decision, such as getting involved with someone you shouldn’t have? Did you choose a safe career that does not give


Who are the 4 People Within®? Part 2
You have 4 different parts within you. You have a feeling part, a thinking part, a sensing part and an intuitive part. Each of these parts h


Who are the 4 People Within® me? (Part 1 of 2)
“The 4 People Within® are the different parts of your personality. When we align the 4 people who reside within you - the thinker, the...


Quick tips #32: How do I know if I'm selfish or self-caring?
Have you been called selfish or are you afraid of being deemed selfish? Even in these times of empowerment, there are still many of us...


Quick Tips #31: My heart has been broken by life. How can I learn to have faith, trust people
Everyone has experienced a broken heart. You have. Your friends have. I have. Some hearts broke into pieces, some broke open and then...


Quick Tips #30: What are my rights and responsibilities in relationships?
Question: I want to have a certain level of freedom in my relationship. I have heard you say that if you want to have freedom, you need...


The Genius of the INF types: Share your greatest gifts with the world
Have you ever heard a child describe in great detail what they are going to be when they grow up? Do you remember what you wanted to be...


Quick Tips #29: Soothing the INFJ Inner Children
Question: Hi Merja, I have a recurring issue with my inner children. I understand that one of them is a decision-making part of me (the...